Spousora

Spousora

Nobody gets in until we’ve met them.

Six honest photographs. One twenty-minute conversation with a real person. Then a room where every single member has done exactly the same.

Average review time · 3 days

How it works

Three gates, and a person behind the last one.

Most apps let anyone in and ask you to sort it out yourself. We do the sorting first, so the room you walk into has already been checked.

01

Write your profile

Your name, your age, where you live, and — plainly — what you are here for. Marriage, a long relationship, or getting to know people. It is the first thing anyone is matched on.

02

Six photographs

A fixed set, taken with a guide on screen. Two of them are held back from your public grid and released only when a connection is mutual.

03

Twenty minutes, face to face

A booked video call with a reviewer, who checks your ID against your photographs. Pass it and you are sealed. Nothing else opens that door.

The photograph contract

The same six from everyone. No exceptions.

One flattering angle tells you nothing. Six, taken to a brief, tell you what someone actually looks like — which is the least you are owed before you agree to meet them.

01
Portrait
Head and shoulders, eyes to camera, taken in the last six months.
02
Full length
Head to feet, standing, everyday clothes, nothing cropped.
03
At your best
Dressed the way you would actually show up.
04 · held
Bare face
No make-up, no filter, daylight. Released on a mutual connection.
05 · held
Back view
Standing, facing away, full body. Released on a mutual connection.
06
Front view
Standing, facing the camera. The other half of the pair.

Membership

Getting vetted is free. Reach is what you pay for.

We never put the verification behind a paywall — a room is only worth being in if everyone in it has been checked, including the people who have not paid.

Free
₦0
  • Full profile and human verification
  • Browse a handful of profiles a day
  • Reply when someone connects with you
Regular
₦2,000
or $5 · one-time
  • Unlimited browsing, nearest first
  • Send connect requests
  • Voice and video once you are connected
By arrangement
Premium
₦10,000 / month
or $15 / month
  • Everything in Regular
  • Introductions arranged by our team
  • Requests to you are vetted before they arrive
  • Priority review and support

The room is small on purpose.

Applications are reviewed by a person, usually within three days. If we cannot verify you, we will tell you why.

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