You stop wondering if they are real
The single biggest cost of dating online is time spent on somebody who was never who they said. That question is settled before you see them.
Spousora · Where Hearts Find Home
Finding a spouse should not feel like a gamble.
You give a stranger months of your life before you find out the photographs were eight years old, or that they were never single. The problem was never that there is nobody out there. It is that you have no way of knowing who is real until it has already cost you something.
Spousora checks first. Every member has sat in front of one of our reviewers, on camera, with their ID in hand, before their profile is ever shown to you.
What Spousora is
A small room where everybody has already been checked.
Spousora is a mobile app for people looking for marriage or a serious relationship. It works the way the rest of them do — you browse, you send a request, you talk, you call — with one difference that changes everything about it.
Nobody reaches you without having been verified by a human being first. Not an algorithm, not a blue tick you can buy. A person who compared their government ID against six photographs and spoke to them for twenty minutes.
- Real people, confirmed Their face, their name and their age have been checked against a government document.
- Photographs you can trust Six frames to a fixed brief, including one with no make-up and no filter. Recent, or they do not pass.
- Intentions stated up front Marriage, a long relationship, or getting to know people. It is the first thing anybody is matched on.
- Nobody messages you first A conversation only opens when you have both agreed to it. There is no unsolicited inbox here.
The room
Members who agreed to be shown here.
Being verified is consent to be in the app. Appearing on a public web page is a separate question, asked separately — so most of the room is not below.
Why use Spousora
What you get that you do not get anywhere else.
Six reasons people give us for staying, in roughly the order they say them.
Everybody wants the same thing you do
People say why they are here in their own words, and you can filter on it. Nobody is quietly looking for something else.
Requests come with something to read
You cannot tap to connect. A request carries a written note, and only a few go out each week — so the ones you get were meant for you.
People near you, first
Discovery is sorted by distance, shown plainly on the card. No three-hour drive discovered at the end of a good conversation.
Your privacy is the default
Two of your photographs stay off your public profile. Your number is never shown. Your location is never exact. You do not have to ask.
Talk before you travel
Voice and video run inside the app, so you can see and hear somebody properly without handing over your phone number.
Member stories
In their words.
Published with permission, and only with permission. We do not write these ourselves.
How you get in
Four steps, and a person at the end of them.
It takes about three days. It is meant to — the wait is the reason the room is worth walking into.
Confirm your number
A code by SMS or WhatsApp. One account per number.
Write your profile
Your basics, what you are here for, and a few prompts in your own words.
Take six photographs
In the app, with a guide on screen for each frame.
Meet your reviewer
Twenty minutes on video. They check your ID against your photographs, and decide.
Membership
Getting verified is free. Reach is what you pay for.
The vetting is never behind a paywall, because a room is only worth being in if everybody in it has been checked — including the people who have not paid.
Free
₦0
- The full profile and the human verification
- A handful of profiles a day
- Reply when somebody connects with you
Regular
₦2,000
or $5 · one-time
- Unlimited browsing, nearest to you first
- Send connect requests
- Voice and video once you are connected
By arrangement
Premium
₦10,000 / month
or $15 / month
- Everything in Regular
- Introductions arranged by our team
- Requests to you are vetted before they arrive
- Priority review and support
Get the app
Meet people who have already been checked.
Applications are read by a person, usually within three days. If we cannot verify you, we tell you why.
Not on the stores yet. Email spousora@gmail.com and we will send you the build.
Questions
The ones people actually ask.
Is this a dating app or a marriage app?
Both, and you say which. Every member states whether
they are here for marriage, a long relationship, or getting to know
people — and you can browse on that alone. Most of our members
pick the first.
How long does it take to get in?
Usually three days. Most of that is waiting for an
interview slot that suits you; the review itself is quick once
somebody sits down with your file.
Why do you need a bare-face photograph?
Because it is the most useful frame for establishing
that the other five are the same person, and it is the one most
profiles quietly omit. It stays off your public grid and is released
only when a connection is mutual.
What happens to my ID document?
A reviewer looks at it beside your photographs during
your interview and records the outcome. It is never shown to another
member, never used for matching, and never sold.
Can I be rejected?
Yes, and people are. Usually photographs that do not
match the brief, an ID that does not match the face, or somebody who
misses two booked interviews. We tell you why and you can apply
again.
Do I have to pay?
No. Verification and a free membership are permanent.
You pay only if you want to browse without a daily limit and send
connect requests.
Will my profile appear on this website?
Only if you specifically agree. Being verified puts you
in the app; appearing on a public web page is asked for separately,
and the default is no.